(Warning: LONG)
As I mentioned in my previous post, my Christmas was a
little different this year! Obviously, I
am in a different country with people that I don’t know and nowhere near the
people I love the most. And, as per
usual, when you leave your comfort zone, the things that may have been
obnoxious (like the cold weather!) or normal (having the internet all the time,
or going to Starbucks whenever!) then become what you wish for the most.
So, as the weekend drew near, those are the things that I
missed the most, besides my family and friends, of course, and became just a
little homesick. I wanted everything that I knew... being with either Mom or Dad, or being at work on Christmas Day. That’s normal, too,
right?
But, enough of the ‘woe is me’ and Debbie Downer attitude… I
did have a good weekend (mixed with a few tears, because let’s face it, it’s
me!). Saturday was spent with a few of
the other students at the ruins. It was
hot and sunny, and nice to be around people!
After our tour, we broke off and went our separate ways for a while. Maude (a friend from Quebec) and I took some
more pics before walking back to town.
Her family (who happens to be my teacher’s family) invited her to have
lunch at their church. So, that’s where
we headed. They are Seventh Day
Adventist, so I was intrigued what their church was like, as I have never seen
it before. We arrived at the church to
people praying over one another. This
was a nice sight to see, and my heart ached a little for some praise and
worship from home. Maude and I waited in
the back where some other people were setting up lunch. We felt a little awkward, but most everyone
was really nice and smiled at us. A few
even attempted some conversation that quickly became comical or ended with a
smile because no one really knew what the other was saying!
After lunch, I headed back to my house with full intentions
to help my host mom with dinner. Well,
she didn’t need help right away, so I decided to rest, but fell asleep… for the
next hour. Oops! I guess I needed some sleep! When I awoke, she didn’t really need help, so
I read for a while until dinner was ready.
Sara and Ernesto’s oldest son, Marel, came with his wife and children,
but were late. So, we didn’t end up
eating until after 7. It was a great
meal, as usual, and conversation was a little on the lighter side. My family still doesn’t talk to me much. But, it was really nice of them to include me
in their family dinner.
Getting a new outfit is the big thing here. Exchanging many gifts, or expecting Santa to
leave them, isn’t really what happens.
You get a new outfit for the day and you wear it proudly all
weekend. Sara came into my room before
dinner to give me something, and it ended up being a present for me! It is a beautiful scarf. It was completely unexpected and really
thoughtful. And, it's orange!
Please ignore my sleepy look.
After dinner, I headed out to meet the family (Annette,
Michael and Oliver) from school for the procession before Mass. They had told me about Mass because their
host family is Catholic and would be walking in the procession. I was really happy about this because I had
asked a few people about Christmas Eve Mass, and no one knew about it. I thought it weird that the Catholic Church
wouldn’t have a service. But, I
digress. The procession was really
neat. About a hundred or so people
holding candles were walking behind Joseph and a pregnant Mary.
The crowd gathered in front of the church, where permission
had to be granted to enter the church, which, I believe, represented Mary and
Joseph finding an inn. Once we were all
in the church, the live nativity continued with sound effects of a real baby
crying and all!
Mass was not as long as I thought it was going to be. It was beautiful, as always, even if I didn’t
understand it all. I love the Catholic
Church for many reasons, but one that is high on my list is that it’s literally
the same Mass everywhere. The same
prayers. The same Eucharist. The same thing. Because of that, it brings a sense of home,
even when I am so far away from my own.
It’s an incredible blessing to be part of something that is so
universal. Good job, God!
After Mass, I was invited back to the Martinez house for
more food and to hang out with people that like to talk to you! Christmas Eve is more of a celebration than
Christmas day itself here in Honduras, so families are always together and
eating. Everyone was telling me about
the fireworks at midnight… there are a TON!
That’s what I was expecting, and that’s what I got. Midnight was INSANE. The fireworks were just crazy. And, it’s so, so, so dangerous. I kept having visions of kids blowing off
their heads, or limbs. The littlest of
kids are handling these things. I didn’t
hear of anyone getting seriously hurt this year… thank goodness. I wish I could say it will quiet down, but I
think they go on until the Epiphany.
The morning after... this stuff was everywhere!
Christmas day was pretty low key. I opened up the gifts my mom sent with
my. She is amazing, and gave me some
pretty amazing things. It made the day
special! My host mom asked if I wanted to
join them on a day trip, but I declined so that I could talk to my family and
friends. And, boy did I! I set up camp in front of the school, where
the wifi still worked. I think people
thought I was seriously crazy, talking to my computer. But, it was the best part of my day… to spend
time with my family! I just relaxed,
read and made a few calls the rest of the day.
I am so blessed to have such wonderful people in my life!
Well, thank you for making it this far. I hope you all had such a wonderful and
blessed Christmas! Feliz Navidad!